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How to Stop Bad Attitudes from Ruining Your Career in HVAC
Usually, victim cynicism stems from blame shifting. Blaming circumstances or others for a compressor changeout gone bad, or the predicament of the company. “Why didn’t our dispatcher order the right compressor?” Why is it that our sales department can’t seem to find any work.” Or “The job failed because the salesman didn’t bid the job properly.” Have you ever heard these?
The issue is that these are victim questions. They shift the responsibility to other people’s actions. However, if you shift the blame and responsibility, then you are a victim of your circumstances. You cannot control the outcome in life or try and do better in life because your circumstances are determined by others’ choices.
Instead, be proactive and take responsibility for what you can do or influence. Ask questions like, “How could I have helped the salesman bid the job properly?” “How can I help the dispatcher to order the right compressor next time?” “What could I do to change our company?” These types of questions empower you and make you the responsible person. You’re no longer a victim of your circumstances or others’ decisions; you can help facilitate change.
It’s easier, though, to be the victim. When you’re the victim, there’s no action or responsibility on you’re part. It’s everyone else’s fault. The other people must change, not you. However, you’ll become a person people avoid, shallow and hollow in relationships. Don’t choose the victim path, take responsibility for your actions and demand of yourself higher performance.
Paralysis by Analysis
This is the issue we get caught on. There are two good options and you don’t know which one to choose.
Which one is right?
Which one is my purpose or calling?
Which one will yield the life I desire?
What if I choose the wrong one?
What about the people I’m letting down?
What will they think of me?
These questions will not be answered until a decision to act is made. It is only through action that the questions will have their answer in reality. But to not take action will never give you the answer to your questions. Indecision is what makes people faulter and never move forward.
It’s true, you might make the wrong decision. However, you’re not defined by the failure unless you give it that power over you. Make mistakes, but only make them once and then add to yourself wisdom.
The purpose of analysis is to come to a conclusion. Don’t get stuck in analysis. Make a decision.
PS – Making a decision can involve delaying a decision. The amount of time should be proportional to the weight of the choice. However, set a deadline and stick to it.
Be Faithful in the Little Things
Too often we want the promotion or the business to grow now. Few things, though, ever happen right now.
Consistently being faithful and responsible in the small things that you do now will determine where you go, or the promotion in the future.
I used to be critical of the company and my managers that I worked for. I thought that I could do things better. However, the responsibilities I did have, I was not being faithful in. When I realized this, I stopped complaining about the company and my managers and focused on being excellent at the “small things” I was responsible for.
If you don’t develop a habit of being faithful in the little things, then how or who will trust you with bigger or weightier things?